The wedding is 21+, so no little ones. Use your rainy-day fund to hire a sitter, call on grandma, or take a risk and see if they survive a few hours unaccompanied (just kidding!). While we love the joy your tots bring to this world, our wedding will be a time for the adults to play and celebrate.

There is a limited number of parking spots within the gates of the Thornewood Estates, so please let us know in advance if you plan on driving so that we can secure a spot for you. We encourage carpooling, getting dropped off, and Uber/Lyft/Taxi on the way home. Your safety means the world to us!

What kind of wedding would this be without delicious food and drinks?! We will be serving appetizers during the cocktail hour, and dinner at the reception. Please inform us of any allergies you may have beforehand. We are using off-site catering, so if you need to bring a separate meal for yourself due to dietary restrictions, just give us a heads up!

Unfortunately, Thornewood Castle is located in a residential area, and all guests need to be off the premises (cars outside of the gate) by 10 p.m. sharp. The music will end at 9-ish, and will give everyone a chance to say their goodbyes and head home safely. Please arrange a ride to pick you up if you are not driving.

Beer, Wine, Ciders, and Seltzers only! Tony and Seaj will be hosting the bar for a period of time, and after that we will move to a cash bar. Please make sure to bring cash to tip your bartenders (and entertainment...).

Please dress to impress. Think elegant, regal, formal. The grooms don't care where you get your outfit or how much it costs, just look good! Tony and Seaj have gone to great lengths to provide a beautiful venue and photographer, and these pictures will last a lifetime. It is recommended that you bring a jacket, as it will get chilly after sunset. Please do not wear white, gold, or silver. Thank you!

Short answer, no. Your invitation will clearly designate who is invited, and due to limited seating and cost-per-person for the venue, we cannot honor a plus one, and they will be turned away at the door. Don't worry about feeling lonely, everyone will fit in with this social band of misfits!